Loving through the vulnerabilities…

This is a follow-on to my blog yesterday where I discussed the shame vulnerability and how crippling it can be. In today’s blog I want to talk about what it looks like to love through the vulnerabilities.  Most of us tend to find like-minded people who share our same vulnerabilities as those are the people that can most naturally soothe our fears. However, to truly … Continue reading Loving through the vulnerabilities…

When the fortune doesn’t come true…

It was a chilly walk from the subway with the dreary New York slush at my feet, the slush that seemed to last for months. I was greeted by the laughter of my friends as we opened the door to one of the city’s trendy speakeasy’s, Employees Only. The entrance passes by a fortune teller that rotates nightly, sometimes a palm reader, sometimes a card … Continue reading When the fortune doesn’t come true…

Finding & dating the good guys…

Have you been in one of those relationships before where you’re worried if you say something it might push him away? Where if you were honest with him about who you really were, he wouldn’t want you? The relationships where you feel the least authentic and the most fretful. It may seem obvious, except for when you’re knee deep in them, but if you have … Continue reading Finding & dating the good guys…

Let’s face it, he’s not into you…

The beginning of relationships is usually a little interesting as you each dance through the investigatory process in your own way.  Some dive in immediately and ask deep questions (e.g. INTJ’s) and others start with fun experiences (e.g. ENFPs) or a myriad of other approaches. In any case, there are times it blossoms into amazingness and times where it leaves you constantly wondering – ‘does he … Continue reading Let’s face it, he’s not into you…